If your man is not cheating on you with the neighbor, he is cheating with your friend.

The same applies to women, if your woman is not cheating with her boss, she is busy entertaining your 'Boy.'

The big question is would you forgive a cheating partner?

According to Sam West here are ways you can work on a relationship after cheating.

Be open

After cheating happens, it becomes difficult for a couple to see eye to eye.

Some even opt to sleep in separate rooms.

While others choose to forgive their partners, some relationships never survive.

If you are planning on salvaging your relationship, be open with your partner.

It is difficult to trust someone who is hiding stuff.

Show genuine remorse

Instead of blaming your partner for 'pushing' you to cheat take responsibility and own up to your mistake.

It is also paramount to show steps you will take to ensure what happened does not happen again.

End communication with your affair partner

The temptation to keep chatting with your cheating might be high.

But before you make that call or send that text, ask yourself what you stand to gain.

Actively seek help

This can be done by talking to mature people within your circle. You can also seek therapy.

Improve your relationship with Jesus

Improving your relationship with God helps you see things clearly..

Avoid bad friends

Like they say bad company ruins good morals. If the people you were hanging with influenced your decision to cheat leave them.

You can also opt to hang out with new people, it might help you get a better view of life and how to deal with challenges thrown at you.

In Kenya, some celebrities have been exposed for allegedly cheating on their spouses.

Despite that these women chose to forgive their partners.

They include: DJ Creme De La Creme, DJ Mo, Terrence Creative, and Professor Hamo, Samidoh.

Others include

Mr Seed and businessman Jimal Roho Safi.

In some of these cases, the women cheated on walked away while some relationships broke due to matters not related to cheating.